Hayden turned four today and we tried to give her an extra special fun day. Of course, the motto of the day was still "you can be the queen, but you can't be mean" to keep her bossy, tantrum-y, dictatorial style in check, but she did fine and had a fun day.
First off, she's in summer camp this week at her preschool, so she got to take in cupcakes for snack. I wanted to make sure she got to take in a special snack for her birthday at school, since I don't see her getting a lot of opportunity to do that in the future with a July birthday! She and Grandma made cupcakes yesterday afternoon, while Nugget and I tried a prenatal yoga class. And then I frosted them in pink with sprinkles last night. All 15 cupcakes I sent to school did not return, so I think they went over well.
When she woke up in the morning today, Hayden came down to this...

Streamers everywhere! Balloons and birthday banners too. Eliza said "wow" when she first saw it. And Hayden got this silly smile and said "guys, what's this?" in this super cheesy, really cute way she has. (The streamers in the doorway were quite the attraction for both girls. To my surprise, none of them got ripped off until AFTER cake in the evening. Even then, it was only one, and Eliza -the culprit - went "oh no, oh no!")


The dining room was decorated too, with a pink tablecloth, star sprinkles, extra balloons and a pile of presents. We discovered that it's never too early to play with balloons!


The next order of business for perfect Hayden birthday celebration was to bake and decorate a pink castle cake. I had asked for cake decorating supplies for my birthday, and along with tips and frosting bags, had gotten a book on basic cake decorating with several pictures of cakes. Hayden loved looking thru it and immediately focused in on the castle cake. So back in March, she had already picked out her birthday cake, and didn't waver this whole time! Since I'm always up for a baking adventure, I said sure, we can do that and made my best attempt at it.

my model (sorry it's sidewise, but I think you get the idea.)

it started with two cakes and a HUGE batch of pink frosting. If anyone has tips on getting cakes out of pans in one piece, please share! I have failed in almost all my recent attempts, including today as you can see here. It all worked out okay, but the cake was shorter than intended.

Despite the mangled cakes, somehow I managed to frost it nice and smooth (for the most part) with all that pink icing. There is a TON of icing on that sucker! When Hayden was allowed up from quiet time, she was quite pleased with the color. And gave me a thumbs up on the taste taste too. (What kind is this Mommy? Butter cream. This is my favorite!)

Then it was decoration time. It took too much concentration to assemble the ice cream cones correctly to get any intermediary pictures. Plus I was having trouble getting a good photo, even when Hayden got to start helping. She was quite excited to add the candies to the cake. Both E and H liked tasting them too.

The finished product! Looks pretty good, don't you think? Mostly like the picture?

Eliza had a good time observing the process, especially when she was allowed to taste things. :)
For dinner, we went out to Chik-fil-a, because it was kids' night. We were going to go at lunch, but at this particular one Tuesdays are kids night where kids eat free with an adult meal and there is a craft. We'd talked about going, but never had, so this seemed the perfect opportunity. It was packed! Grandma and Poppop met us there to experience the chaos. Hayden was wired and didn't eat much beyond one chicken nugget and a couple fries. Eliza had her beloved milk and a couple bites of nugget and fries. They tried the playground but it was full of screaming kids so they didn't last too long. The craft was cute, but fairly easy. (I do have pics but they were on the other camera and not uploaded yet. maybe tomorrow). We ate, played and crafted along with half of southwest Durham families and then we headed back home for presents and cake!

She got tons of presents and this one from Grandma and Poppop was one of her favorites - as she said as she opened it. The story of the Wizard of Oz. After some presents, we did cake.




After dinner, we finished up presents. We saved our special present for last. We had found a cabbage patch kid with the name Ruth Hayden, and just had to get it, even though it wasn't specifically something we were planning on. Hayden was a bit perplexed by the fancy snap-on-hair version, but I think she liked the special name!

Then we let her pick one toy to play with before heading up to bath and bed. I have to admit I felt a little bit of parental pride when she picked one of the things we had picked out - a little cinderella dress up doll. Eliza had a good time playing with some of the other toys, even in their packaging.


And that was her special birthday day. Happy Birthday Hayden! We hope you enjoyed your pink princess birthday. We love you!
PS Thank you to everyone for her wonderful presents and cards. Even though they may not be featured here, she loves everything.